I heard someone say something simple… and sexy… and empowering recently. It had to do with his penis. More on that in a bit… This morning, I stumbled across a discussion on Fet related to consent violation… specifically a man confessing to what sure sounded like rape, but then backpedaling into a sad sort of … Continue reading
Dating someone who is “vanilla” or outside of “the community” is slightly discombobulating. It’s not her… It’s just that i’ve become accustomed to the way we do things in our little bdsm world. We have all manner of shortcuts and buzzwords. We disclose so much about ourselves up front. When someone meets me in that community, … Continue reading
i do love me some ferret… not the animal… the person. Today, i happened across one of his writings on the fet and it linked to the original post found here. And i’d just – moments before – read something that PA wrote on fet… she spoke of being wrapped in doubt… and she spoke … Continue reading
i had occasion to comment on fet today (on a post about the resurrection of the local energy group) and while typing i mentioned that meditation can help you get in touch with YOU and also with the withOUT you. That just lept to my fingers and out it went into cyberspace along with a … Continue reading
Dear John, It’s not me… it’s you. i’m still here, dude… i got yer back… but you left me hanging again. i support you… i mean… i actually clicked that link and supported you. While you are waiting to bring the site back up, here are some videos for you, John 😉 Continue reading
Frustrated bat. Not sexually frustrated, mind you, but frustrated. i recently read something that MG posted to fet… it jumped off the screen at me – actually – from the middle of a short writing. He said… “Frustration is what begins where my knowledge ends.” That’s as close to the nub of it that i can likely … Continue reading
Last night, i had an interesting IM encounter with J. It began innocently enough… we’ve been messaging recently on fet… but it moved to an IM and in that world of back-and-forth banter, it quickly morphed into something else entirely. There was none of that “and then, i’ll do this… or that” but rather a … Continue reading
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